Finding the right outfit for your son or daughter's wedding should be an enjoyable experience. You want something elegant and special, but also comfortable, beautifully fitted and true to your personal style.

At Living Silk, we specialise in elegant pure silk dresses and two-piece outfits for mothers of the bride and mothers of the groom. Our collection includes dresses, skirts, wrap shirts, jackets, shawls and gowns, with sizes from XS to XXL and a made-to-measure service for women who need a more personalised fit.

Whether you are attending a country, garden, beach, cocktail, formal or black-tie wedding, the right silhouette, fabric and fit can make all the difference.

Elegant Plus Size Mother of the Bride and Groom Outfits

A beautiful mother of the bride or mother of the groom outfit does not need to be defined by size. The most important considerations are fit, proportion, comfort, colour and the formality of the wedding.

Living Silk's pure silk collection offers both dresses and separates, allowing you to choose the style that feels most like you.

For example, you might choose:

• A classic pure silk dress for an elegant one-piece look
• A tea length dress for a daytime or cocktail wedding
• A floor-length gown for a formal or black-tie wedding
• A pure silk wrap shirt with a tea length skirt
• A pure silk skirt and top combination for a versatile two-piece outfit
• A silk jacket or shawl to provide an elegant extra layer

Explore our mother of the bride dresses and outfits to see the full collection.

What Should a Plus Size Mother of the Bride Wear?

The mother of the bride can choose from a wide range of styles depending on the wedding dress code, venue, season and her own personal style.

For a daytime wedding, a tea length dress or elegant two-piece outfit can be an excellent choice. For a formal evening wedding, a longer dress or gown can create a more sophisticated look.

Two-piece outfits can be particularly versatile because they allow you to combine different silhouettes, colours and lengths. A pure silk wrap shirt paired with a skirt, for example, can create an elegant outfit that can also be worn as separates for other occasions.

The most important thing is to choose an outfit that feels comfortable and gives you confidence throughout the day.

What Should a Plus Size Mother of the Groom Wear?

The mother of the groom has just as much opportunity to express her personal style.

A mother of the groom outfit can be elegant and distinctive without competing with the bridal party. Pure silk dresses, skirts, wrap shirts and gowns offer a sophisticated approach to wedding dressing while giving you plenty of choice in colour and silhouette.

When choosing your outfit, consider:

• The wedding dress code
• The venue and setting
• The time of day
• The season
• Your preferred length and silhouette
• The colours being worn by the bridal party
• How you would like to accessorise the outfit

If you are unsure what style will work best, a Living Silk phone consultation can provide personalised guidance on sizing, colour and styling.

Choosing the Right Silhouette for a Plus Size Wedding Outfit

There is no single style that every plus size woman should wear. The right silhouette is the one that fits your measurements, feels comfortable and reflects your personality.

Pure Silk Wrap Shirts

A wrap shirt is an elegant option when you prefer a two-piece outfit. The adjustable nature of a true wrap design allows the garment to be positioned according to your individual proportions.

The Pure Silk Classic Wrap Shirt can be paired with a number of Living Silk skirts to create a sophisticated mother of the bride or mother of the groom outfit.

Tea Length Dresses and Skirts

Tea length styles sit between the knee and ankle and can be particularly versatile for weddings.

The Pure Silk Tea Length Dress can work beautifully for a daytime, garden, country or cocktail wedding, while a tea length skirt paired with an elegant silk top creates another sophisticated option.

Explore our tea length dresses and outfits for the mother of the bride and mother of the groom for more inspiration.

Gown-Length Styles

For a formal evening or black-tie wedding, a gown-length silhouette can create a more dramatic and elegant look.

Living Silk offers several long dresses and gowns in pure silk, allowing you to choose a more formal silhouette while still enjoying the movement and drape of silk.

Two-Piece Outfits

A two-piece outfit can be an excellent choice if you want flexibility.

A Pure Silk Classic Wrap Shirt paired with a Pure Silk Tea Length Pansy Skirt, Pure Silk Bohemian Skirt or any other Living Silk skirt allows you to create a complete wedding outfit while also giving you pieces that can be styled separately in the future.

This can make a two-piece outfit particularly appealing if you would like to wear your wedding clothes again after the celebration.

Why Choose Pure Silk for a Plus Size Mother of the Bride Outfit?

Pure silk is naturally associated with elegance and special-occasion dressing, making it particularly suited to a wedding.

Living Silk's collection is predominantly made from pure silk, with garments designed for mothers of the bride, mothers of the groom and other special occasions.

Silk has a beautiful natural drape and subtle lustre, while its breathable qualities make it suitable for dressing across different seasons.

Pure silk also photographs beautifully, making it a natural choice for an occasion where you will be photographed throughout the day.

From a practical perspective, choosing a timeless silk garment can also allow you to wear the piece again for other celebrations, dinners and formal occasions.

Plus Size Dresses or Two-Piece Outfits: Which Is Right for You?

Both dresses and two-piece outfits can work beautifully for a mother of the bride or mother of the groom.

A dress may be the simplest option if you want one complete look.

A two-piece outfit gives you more flexibility. You can choose a skirt and top combination that suits your proportions and then wear each piece separately on other occasions.

For example, a pure silk wrap shirt can be worn with a tea length skirt for a wedding and later paired with another skirt or trousers for a different occasion.

If you are unsure whether a dress or two-piece outfit would work best for you, a personalised styling consultation can help you compare the options.

Made-to-Measure Plus Size Mother of the Bride and Groom Outfits

Finding an elegant occasion outfit in an extended size can sometimes be challenging, particularly when standard garment proportions do not provide the fit you need.

That's why Living Silk offers a made-to-measure service.

Instead of simply selecting a standard size, your garment can be made according to your individual measurements.

Made-to-measure is available across Living Silk's online garments, so if you find a dress, skirt or two-piece outfit you love, you can enquire about having it made to your measurements.

This can be particularly useful when you want a more personalised fit for an important occasion such as your son or daughter's wedding.

How Living Silk's Made-to-Measure Service Works

Our made-to-measure process is designed to make finding your wedding outfit as straightforward as possible.

1. Choose Your Outfit

Start by exploring the Living Silk collection and choose the dress, gown, skirt, wrap shirt or other garment you love.

You do not need to limit yourself to a particular style simply because you require a larger size. Our made-to-measure service allows you to enquire about having your chosen garment created according to your measurements.

2. Take Your Measurements

Once you have selected your garment, follow our measurement guidance to take the measurements required for your outfit.

Accurate measurements are an important part of creating a made-to-measure garment, so take your time when completing this step.

3. Book a Phone Consultation

If you would like assistance with your measurements, colour or style, you can book a phone consultation with a Living Silk stylist.

Our team can discuss your requirements and help you choose an outfit that is appropriate for your wedding and personal style.

4. Your Garment Is Made to Measure

Once your order and measurements have been received, your garment is made according to your individual measurements.

Living Silk's professional dressmakers quality check made-to-measure garments three times before they are sent to you.

Made-to-measure garments are shipped within four weeks of receiving your order.

Please note that made-to-measure garments are non-refundable because they are created specifically to your measurements.

Plus Size Wedding Outfits for Different Wedding Styles

The wedding setting and dress code should always influence your choice of outfit.

Country and Garden Weddings

For a country or garden wedding, consider a tea length skirt or dress, paired with an elegant silk top or wrap shirt.

Lighter colours and softer tones can work beautifully in an outdoor setting, while a silk shawl or jacket can provide an additional layer if the temperature changes.

You can also read our guide to What the Mother of the Bride should wear to a Country Wedding for more ideas.

Black-Tie Weddings

A black-tie wedding calls for a more formal approach.

A long silk gown or elegant floor-length dress can create the level of sophistication expected for an evening celebration.

Midnight blue, black and other deep or refined shades can create a particularly elegant formal look, depending on the wedding's colour palette.

For more guidance, read What the Mother of the Bride Should Wear to a Black-Tie Wedding.

Winter Weddings

Winter weddings provide an opportunity to layer your outfit beautifully.

A long silk dress or gown can be paired with an elegant silk jacket, organza jacket or soft silk shawl.

When choosing your outfit, think about the journey between venues, the temperature and whether you will be spending time outdoors.

Read our guide to Mother of the Bride Outfits for a Fall Winter Wedding for more inspiration.

Summer Weddings

Pure silk can be an excellent choice for summer wedding dressing because of its lightweight and breathable qualities.

For a summer wedding, consider a tea length dress, skirt and wrap shirt combination or another lightweight silk silhouette.

A soft silk shawl can also be useful for moving between outdoor and indoor spaces or for cooler evenings.

How to Choose the Right Colour

Colour is one of the most personal parts of choosing a mother of the bride or mother of the groom outfit.

Living Silk offers a broad range of colours, including shades such as midnight blue, sage green, teal, soft pink, dusty rose, fuchsia pink, silver, coffee, black and other sophisticated tones.

When choosing your colour, consider:

• The wedding colour palette
• The season
• The time of day
• Your personal colouring
• The colours worn by the bridal party
• Whether you want a classic or more distinctive look

If you are unsure which colour will work best, a Living Silk stylist can help you consider your options during a phone consultation.

How to Find the Right Fit

For an important occasion such as your child's wedding, comfort is just as important as appearance.

Your outfit should allow you to sit, stand, walk, greet guests and enjoy the celebration without constantly adjusting your clothing.

When considering fit, look at the garment's measurements rather than relying solely on the size label. Different silhouettes can fit differently, and your individual proportions are more important than the number on a label.

Living Silk provides individual size guides for its garments, and our made-to-measure service provides another option when standard sizing is not the right fit for you.

For example, if you are considering the Pure Silk Classic Wrap Shirt, consult the Classic Wrap Shirt size guide before ordering.

If you are considering a Bohemian Skirt, use the Pure Silk Bohemian Skirt Size Guide to check the garment's measurements.

Why Made-to-Measure Can Make Such a Difference

Your child's wedding is an important occasion, and you deserve to feel comfortable and confident in what you are wearing.

Made-to-measure gives you another option when standard sizing does not provide the fit you are looking for.

Rather than choosing an outfit based solely on a standard size, your garment is created according to your measurements.

For women who need a more personalised fit, this can provide greater confidence when choosing an important outfit for a wedding.

At Living Silk, our aim is to combine elegant design, luxurious pure silk and personalised service to help you find an outfit you genuinely love.

FAQs About Plus Size Mother of the Bride and Groom Outfits

Does Living Silk offer plus size mother of the bride dresses?

Yes. Living Silk offers sizes through XXL across its collection, as well as a made-to-measure service for women who require a more personalised fit.

Does Living Silk offer plus size mother of the groom outfits?

Yes. The collection includes dresses, gowns, skirts, wrap shirts and other pieces suitable for mothers of the groom, with made-to-measure options available.

Can I have a Living Silk dress made to measure?

Yes. Living Silk offers a made-to-measure service across its online garments. Your garment can be created according to your individual measurements.

Can I have a two-piece outfit made to measure?

Yes. Made-to-measure can be used for Living Silk's online garments, including two-piece outfit combinations.

What is the best style for a plus size mother of the bride?

There is no single best style for every woman. The right choice depends on your personal style, measurements, wedding dress code, venue and preferred length.

Living Silk offers dresses, tea length styles, gowns and two-piece outfits so you can choose the silhouette that suits you best.

What should I wear to a formal wedding as a plus size mother of the bride?

For a formal wedding, consider an elegant long dress or gown, or a sophisticated two-piece outfit in pure silk. Your choice should reflect the wedding dress code while providing the fit and comfort you need.

Can I get help choosing my mother of the bride outfit?

Yes. You can book a phone consultation with a Living Silk stylist to discuss sizing, colour, styling and your individual requirements.

How long does a made-to-measure Living Silk garment take?

Living Silk advises that made-to-measure garments are posted within four weeks of receiving the order.

Are made-to-measure garments refundable?

No. Made-to-measure garments are non-refundable because they are made specifically according to your measurements.

Find Your Perfect Plus Size Mother of the Bride or Mother of the Groom Outfit

Your child's wedding is a once-in-a-lifetime celebration, and your outfit should feel just as special.

Whether you choose a pure silk dress, a tea length skirt, a classic wrap shirt, a floor-length gown or a complete two-piece outfit, Living Silk offers elegant options designed for special occasions.

And if standard sizing is not quite right for you, our made-to-measure service gives you the opportunity to have your chosen garment created according to your individual measurements.

Explore Living Silk's collection of mother of the bride and mother of the groom dresses and outfits, or book a phone consultation with one of our stylists for personalised help choosing your outfit.